Here are a few links to books and resources you might want to pick up at some point. The idea behind these particular books is that our desire is like a loud voice in our life and we  realize that God’s voice often gets drown out by all the other voices and desires we confront. These books and resources are all about discerning the spirits, the voices and the desires we have, making sure we are listening to God and not everything else. 

.:: For Students
Enjoy the Silence
What Does God Want From Me
Devotion: A raw truth journal on following Jesus

.:: Go Even Deeper (stuff that’s kinda hard to hear)
The Discernment of Spirits: An Ignatian Guide for Everyday Living
Discerning the Will of God: An Ignatian Guide to Christian Decision Making
Our Favorite Sins: The Sins We Commit and How You Can Quit

That last book is by my bishop, Todd Hunter. He is amazing, I double recommend his book! 
Here's a little bit from it... 

The Essential Guide for Beating Temptation
Falling for temptation isn’t inevitable. We don’t have to lose the fight. In fact, we can win if we understand the root of the problem and what Christians have done from the beginning to beat it. Our Favorite Sins shines a much-needed light in our lives’ dark corners and reveals the time-tested methods for getting victory over sin. 
Are you tyrannized by your own desires?
If you are breathing, your answer is probably yes.
The question is: What are you going to do about it?